by David Anderson
Watching Felix Baumgartner’s jump from 24 miles up at the edge of space I’m reminded of how basic is that fear of falling. As I watched the video I had two, opposite reactions. What must it be like to leap from such magisterial heights? (What is it that makes us back away from precarious heights […]
by David Anderson 1 Comment Filed Under: Faith/Trust, Fear, Freedom, Happiness, Letting Go, Love, Reality--trusting it
Many of the people who come to me with a problem or difficulty are struggling with their own imperfection, their own brokenness. We are so hard on ourselves. We can perhaps forgive others, but we cannot forgive ourselves. I know this problem from the inside. I’m a recovering perfectionist. I want things to be perfect […]
by David Anderson 4 Comments Filed Under: Forgiveness, Grace, Healing, Letting Go, Mercy
I’m a big fan of University of Houston professor Brené Brown. I first saw her on Ted Talks. Brown does research on vulnerability, and how it leads to a more fulfilling personal and professional life. In her column “On Leadership” at the Washington Post, Lillian Cunningham recently interviewed Brené Brown, who shares her thoughts on […]
by David Anderson 4 Comments Filed Under: Letting Go, Now/ the Present, Rest/Sabbath
I read this week that a typical small child smiles six hundred times a day, and old men smile two and a half times a day. That tells you all you need to know about the course of human life. As we get older, we get more “serious.” I put that in quotes, because mostly […]
by David Anderson 2 Comments Filed Under: Faith/Trust, Fear, Grace, Happiness, Letting Go
I had breakfast yesterday morning with a friend from seminary. She was telling me about a leadership conference that she had recently hosted. Pastors of thriving congregations had come to speak, but for her one stood out. It was a man we both knew and admired. “Gary told us about a failure,” she said. “All […]
by David Anderson 2 Comments Filed Under: Fear, Grace, Happiness, Letting Go, Mercy
“The whole fall, back-to-school just hit me like a truck.” That’s the way a mother described the first days of September as we talked last night. Me too. It all comes on so fast. Summer seems to start gradually, as things wind slowly down. But it always ends with a bang. A gun goes off. […]
by David Anderson 7 Comments Filed Under: Adult Spirituality, Choice, Daily Practice, Fear, Freedom, Happiness, Letting Go
On this anniversary of 9/11 the papers are full of stories about fisticuffs over the memorial at ground zero. It’s NYC and Bloomberg versus NY and Cuomo, fighting over who gets to control the memorial, who has to pay for it (it costs $60 million a year to maintain). This is about all the little […]
by David Anderson 5 Comments Filed Under: Forgiveness, Freedom, Grace, Healing, Letting Go, Mercy
“People may spend their whole lives climbing the ladder of success only to find, once they reach the top, that the ladder is leaning against the wrong wall.” The wisdom—and wit—of Thomas Merton. We all climb that ladder. There is probably something wrong with you if you don’t. And there are lots of ladders. Young […]
by David Anderson 14 Comments Filed Under: Faith/Trust, Fear, Grace, Happiness, Letting Go, Mercy, Surrender